We all have aspirations, goals, and dreams that we want to achieve. But sometimes, we might find ourselves in situations where we are surrounded by people who don’t share our vision, who don’t believe in us, or who are not willing to support us in our journey. In those moments, it’s important to remember that...Continue reading
“Don’t decrease the goal, increase the effort. Be thankful for the hard times, for they have made you.” Introduction: Life is a journey filled with ups and downs, successes and failures. To achieve our goals, we need to put in the effort, stay committed, and keep pushing forward. Sometimes, we may face challenges and obstacles...Continue reading
The phrase “if you can’t buy it twice, you can’t afford it” is a popular adage that has been passed down from generation to generation. At its core, this statement emphasizes the importance of financial responsibility and the need to exercise caution when making purchases. In today’s world, it is not uncommon for people to...Continue reading
Wayne Gretzky famously said, “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.” In other words, if you don’t take a calculated risk, you’re guaranteed to fail. Introduction to You Miss 100% of the Shots You Don’t Take “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.” This powerful quote, often attributed to hockey legend...Continue reading
Gaslighting is a form of emotional manipulation in which the abuser seeks to sow seeds of doubt in the victim, causing them to question their own memories, perceptions, or sanity. Introduction In this concluding part of my muse on gaslighting as a dangerous manipulative tool, it is imperative you are equipped with knowledge of the...Continue reading
Gaslighting is when you are Emotionally Manipulated to doubt one’s feelings, perceptions, and memories. What is Gaslighting? Gaslighting is a form of emotional manipulations [abuse] in which a person manipulates another person by making them doubt their own perception of reality. This can occur in many different types of relationships, such as romantic relationships, friendships, or...Continue reading
Guilt tripping is an emotionally manipulative tactic and blackmail tool. Introduction Guilt tripping is a manipulative tactic in which one person tries to make another person feel guilty for not doing something they want or for doing something they disapprove of. It is a form of emotional blackmail that can cause feelings of guilt, shame,...Continue reading
In today’s musing, I will be sharing my thoughts on the vexatious issue of manipulation in relationships which I started yesterday with a muse on Manipulations Everywhere: Are you a victim? Introduction Having identified the many contexts in which manipulation occurs; the social context with specific emphasis on interpersonal relationships is of enormous interest to...Continue reading
Manipulation refers to the act of influencing or controlling someone or something in a skillful or unfair way for personal gain or benefit. It involves using tactics such as lying, deception, flattery, or other forms of psychological pressure to gain an advantage over others. Manipulation can occur in various contexts, including personal relationships, social situations,...Continue reading
This musing explores the importance of taking action beyond positive thinking and provides strategies for individuals to take action in their lives. Introduction Taking action is the key to success in any endeavor, be it personal or professional. While positive thinking can certainly provide motivation and a positive mindset, it is only one aspect of...Continue reading
In offices all over the world, the popular refrain today is TGIF (Thank God It Is Friday. Friday to some, marks the beginning of Freedom from work; and to some it’s the beginning of misery. To the Freedom(er), it’s thank God; but to the miserable, it’s everyday a Friday. The attached picture is from a...Continue reading
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